Choosing a headstone is an important and often emotional decision when memorializing a loved one. There are several factors to consider to ensure that you select a headstone that truly honors their memory and meets your needs. The following are some tips from professionals at Polchinski Memorials, Inc. on important things to consider before purchasing a headstone:

Cemetery’s headstone rules

Obtain a copy of the cemetery’s rules and regulations to see if the cemetery requires a specific type of headstone. It is important to know beforehand what the cemetery allows, so that you do not waste your time and energy looking for a headstone that will simply not be allowed.

How many people will it memorialize?

It is good to know ahead of time if the headstone will be for used for one person or for two. If you are thinking of memorializing more than two people on the same stone, it is important that you specify your requirements to the headstone company representative.

An idea of the other headstones in the cemetery

Most families go in for headstones of the same size, shape, and color as the other headstones in the cemetery. However, there are some who prefer something that will stand out from the others. It is important to know the general size and color of other headstones available in the cemetery so that you can begin thinking about the type of headstone you want.

Consider the shape and size

Consider the shape and size of the headstone. The prices vary based on the size and type of a headstone. If you are not concerned about cost, you can find a headstone in just about any shape and size.

Whether you would want to include an epitaph

Decide whether you would want to put an epitaph on the headstone. An epitaph is a saying that comes to mind when you think of a loved one. Popular epitaphs include Bible verses, proverbs, song lyrics, and personal sayings. They are optional but look nice.

Whether you would want to post a genealogy

Some families choose to have a brief genealogy inscribed at the back of their loved one’s headstone. This is done to identify who a person’s spouse, child or grandchildren are. If you would like to have a genealogy inscribed on your loved one’s headstone for posterity, gather the names of those whom you wish to include.

Headstone Materials

The material used in crafting a headstone is a highly important factor because it can impact the visual properties of the final gravestone design as well as your placement options. Also, the durability concerns of a particular stone can significantly affect the longevity of your headstone.

The following are some of the common headstone materials you can choose from:

• Granite: Granite is a very durable stone that is resistant to weathering. It is also available in a variety of colors and finishes.
• Marble: Marble is a softer stone than granite, but it is still durable and can be carved into intricate designs.
• Limestone: Limestone is a less expensive option than granite or marble. However, it is not as durable and may need to be replaced more often.
• Bronze: Bronze is a very durable metal that can last for centuries. However, it is also more expensive than stone.

The style of the headstone can be simple or elaborate, depending on your preference. You may also want to consider adding a personal touch, such as a quote, poem, or symbol.

Contact Polchinski Memorials, Inc. for Headstones

Polchinski Memorials, Inc. is a premier monument company in Westchester County, NY. We offer the finest headstones available. To design a headstone for your loved one, you can call us at 914-984-4198 or email at info@polchinskimemorials.com.